--> if the person is really important sau, khit gnu ka pa ktgal mghintay, aus lng... ure willing do to dat. minsan maiisip mu n kelangan ba tlga n gwin un, pero still u wud end up to the decision na 'I will do that because I want to do that' not 'i will do that because I have to do that'.
--> Past is past. Do not live in the past. Today is here and Tomorrow is waiting for us. Do not stick sa past. Dat's already finished. Lhat ng ngawa mu sa past mu, di n un mbabalik e. In any kind of relationships, di maiiwasan n may mga misunderstandings, may mga feelings n nhurt, may mga ncause n negative emotions, pero lhat ng un tpos na... Iwan n lhat yan... Mhirap mg-forward if mdami kang dalang mbbgat n bgay sa life mu. Its not the time n din n mgturuan o mgcchan kun kninong fault kc it wont help...
--> Learn to accept the weaknesses of the people around you. - Once you got to know the person, especially hbng tumtgal ng tumtgal, mkikita at mkikita mu tlga ung mga weaknesses nya. and as a friend, u need to learn to accept those weaknesses. ndi mu pdeng takbuhan nlng un or deadmahin.. Wat u need to do is to accept it and for you to do that, ask God that He'll change you and make u accept the weaknesses of the people around you and that He'll use you to help that person work-out his/her weaknesses. Kc if youre looking for a perfect friend, ndi ka mkakakita nun becoz nobody's perfect! u urself is not perfect! Wat we need is change or heart and minds.
--> Always have time for your friends (khit minsan lng) - Not Everyday, kyang ipaalam ng mga important n tao sa life mu un kun anu nanyayari sa life nya.. Oo, hi-tech n ngaun. May text, may email, may friendster at kung may anu anu pa, pero sumtimes dhil sa dami ng gngawa sa work or kun khit san pa, nkakalimutan n lhat un. at kun nkakapagtext pa nga or email, still minsan kulang pa din un details e and mas mgnda n mkita mu tlga kun anu ung lgay nya, un anu n ba nangyayari sa knya and mkita mismu ng mata mu kun kmusta b tlga cia, anung bgo sa knya (anung luma?.hehe), in person... Especially dun sa mga tao n pdeng pde nmang mgkita...
--> Friendship (Any relationship) is a two way relationship.. - before i always thought n dpat anjan ako lgi kc kelangan nya ko. Bka kailangan nya ng kausap, bka kailangan nya ng 'clown', bka kailangan nya ng gnun, ng gnyan, without me realizing n kya ko pla pinag-iisip ung mga un is because I need her din.. Its not only, 'She needs me or She needs a friend' but also 'I need her or I need a friend.'
--> Leave everything to God.. -- Nun mejo fresh pa 'misunderstanding' nmin ni Anna.. sobra grbe, i dont want to let her go tlga... anjan n ung mga times n kulang nlng sabihin nya tlga n i-stop ko na. pero ndi nman nya cnbi e, mejo pinaparamdam lng nya. hehe. pero still parang i cant stop e. cguro nguguilty lng ako kc i am the reason y nging gnun kmi... pero one time, meron akong nkausap bout this, and sabi nya sakin 'Learn to respect her decision'. Ng-violent reaction pa ko dito, sbi ko, 'Did u mean n hayaan ko nlng cia n mwala?'. tos sabi nya, ndi s gnun pero lhat ng bagay e may time. cge dw wag dw akong tumigil and 1 day i will realize nlng n wala n tlga cia. and isa pang cnbi nya is 'Kpag ang boat cnagwan mu sa isang side lng, mgpapaikot ikot lng dw un at walang mangyayari.'. and i guess lhat ng cnbi nyang un is tama... And isa pang cnbi nya, mas mganda dw if ang center ng relationship is c God... Kya I prayed and ask God n if He really wants me and Anna to be friends again, then un n nga sna ung mangyari and if ever n ndi, then I ask Him n He'll help me accept it. And now, Anna and I were friends again and I guess God wants us to be a part of each others lives. hehe... Old friendship with a new start and I believe that God will bless our friendship. O wag ka na kumontra dontcha... hehe
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